Topic 4: Non-Verbal, Visual, & Electronic Communication
Lesson 1: The Power of Non-Verbal Communication
Non-verbal communication (NVC) is the process of conveying meaning without the use of spoken or written words. It is often more powerful and telling than verbal communication, operating at a subconscious level and providing the context for interpreting spoken messages.
Definition and Scope:
- Definition: The sending and receiving of wordless messages. It encompasses everything but the words themselves.
- Often Unconscious: While we can choose our words, many non-verbal cues are emitted automatically.
- Provides Context: It frames verbal messages, indicating sincerity, sarcasm, confidence, or nervousness.
Functions of Non-Verbal Communication:
- To Complement or Contradict Verbal Messages: A nod while saying “yes” complements; rolling eyes while saying “fine” contradicts.
- To Regulate Interactions: Controlling the flow of conversation (e.g., leaning forward to speak, looking away to end a turn).
- To Express Emotions and Attitudes: Conveying happiness, anger, trust, or disapproval through facial expressions and tone.
- To Substitute for Words: Using gestures like a thumbs-up or a shrug to replace verbal phrases.
- For Self-Presentation: Managing impressions through dress, posture, and grooming.
- In Rituals: Performing culturally defined actions like handshakes or bows.
Main Channels of Non-Verbal Communication:
- Kinesics (Body Language):
- Facial Expressions: The most universal NVC channel (e.g., happiness, sadness, surprise).
- Gestures: Movements of hands, arms (e.g., pointing, waving, illustrative gestures).
- Posture and Stance: How one stands or sits (e.g., slouching vs. standing tall, open vs. closed posture).
- Eye Contact (Oculesics): Conveys interest, attention, honesty, or dominance. Lack of it can signal dishonesty or discomfort.
- Paralanguage (Vocalics):
- The how of saying something: tone, pitch, volume, pace, pauses, and fillers (“um,” “ah”).
- The statement “I’m fine” can mean completely different things based on vocal tone.
- Proxemics (Use of Space):
- The study of personal space and physical distance in communication.
- Zones: Intimate, Personal, Social, and Public distances, which vary by culture.
- Haptics (Touch):
- Communication through physical contact (e.g., handshake, pat on the back, hug). Highly cultural and contextual.
- Appearance and Artifacts:
- Physical Appearance: Grooming, body shape.
- Artifacts: Clothing, accessories, glasses, briefcases – all send messages about professionalism, status, and personality.
- Chronemics (Use of Time):
- The meaning attached to time (e.g., punctuality, willingness to wait, duration of a meeting) communicates respect and priority.